Shireroth

Honestly? Why do they claim to want something, complain about how they never get it.. then.. finally.. it lands in their lap, they have exactly what they longed for....... and they throw it out.

I'm sick of it.

Poor Erik...

I was recently intrigued to find that this question, as well as the closely related question "What the fuck is wrong with men?", actually has an answer. I suggest you read something about the evolutionary psychology of sex relations, such as the first few chapters of:

http://www.amazon.com/Moral-Animal-Scie ... 0679763996

I can testify that this k works.:

http://www.amazon.com/Getting-Love-You- ... 0805068953

Despite the title, singles can get a lot out of it:

CAVEAT:

The first half our so of the book is depressing. You have to commit to read the whole thing.

I've seen the 2nd one at the store...


To be honest, I can more or less answer the question, I'm just venting frustration....

The human condition from the Dawn of Time.

"I know what I want,
I just don't know how to,
Go about gettin' it." -Jimmi Hendrix

I'm lucky I'm on the other side of the love-luck spectrum. I kinda have multiple girlfriends...unofficially...

Im kinda un-officially a playa!

Not all women are either two-faced or that difficult to figure out. Some of us see what we want, go after it, and are happy with it when we get it. I don't understand the person described in the first post either. That said, it takes a certain level of maturity in either men or women to know what they really want or need. Most play at it and some grow up enough to see things from an adult perspective. When you are ready to stop playing at relationships, you will look for someone else who is no longer playing games with love.

I just seem to like a challenge deep down. And go after girls when the situation is not necessarily the best. Though in some cases I don't find this out till after I have started to pursue them.

Sometimes I find I just don't really care when I fail, and move on...

...This time. I care.

My Ex had absolutely no clue what she wanted. I think she watched to many soaps and wanted to imitate the drama in RL.

She wanted to be rescued, I obliged, big mistake.

But that was then, and God willing I'll be home by Friday!

Hooray for welcomes home!