Shireroth

Don't read on if you want to be happy... because right now I feel like a killjoy and exactly like the title.For some time now i've felt deeply... well, for lack of a better word; wounded. Not by anyone in particular, just by life. Like i'm its footstool now. Mostly because it seems all around have an over-abundance of lovers and I have no one who would even give me the time of day. They make it sound so terribly easy, and they allways seem to be so non-chalant about it. Why, when I try and care so much, do I find the "the field" empty? Should I just not care? I tried that, and I couldn't. It didn't work anyway. I feel ruined... like an old relic no one wants. Why do women want the guy that doesn't care, the one she knows is bad for him... but the guy who will care and keep her safe; "Just a good friend"...Any advice? Words of encouragement...? Anything? Edited by: Gman Russell at: 3/20/04 6:08 pm

"How Kids Make Friends" by Lonnie Michelle Â… and before you knock it because of the title believe me when I say adults can learn from this book as well.

*huge hugs for Greg*I sowwy you feel that way Greg....everything will work out in the end...I just know it. *more hugs*As for girls choosing the guy that doesn't care...I have no flippin' clue...but then again I'm not the typical girl either. Jadie of GoldshireCarry on with your lives people...nothing to see here.Edited by: Jadie of Goldshire at: 3/20/04 10:02 pm

I am as well not the typical girl....it is, i think, only the typical girl who wants the guy that is bad for her....so....find an atypical girl....but remember, friendship is a very good basis for a relationship, just dont wait too long... *hug* I have no custom signature...oh wait...Edited by: Alexandra Decens at: 3/22/04 2:00 pm

I'm... well, just... bad at girls. Ya know? and it gets so very frustrating... but thanks for your help.

Just talk to them like a human being....don't try and be extra special just because they're a girl....As for waiting too long? Um....Let's see...current boyfriend...friends for about a year..Then again I'm not typical... Jadie of GoldshireCarry on with your lives people...nothing to see here.

Girls really aren't that foregin a creature, hell i had some friends, who treated me like one of the guys, and i loved it... I have no custom signature...oh wait...

Nono, I can have a female friend no problem... they're just never interested that way... THAT'S the problem... Edited by: Gman Russell at: 3/22/04 7:49 pm

Ah.... I have no custom signature...oh wait...

Shy? Me too. In the words of my mentor in these matters, the inimitable Sean T. O'Seanbhaile, get some dutch courage. If you need to, mix it in with club orange or whatever. Makes all the difference. Admittedly I'm not so bad that I need to get drunk, but not that good either.The important thing to learn in this, G, is that not all girls are Alex and Jadie, nor are they the man-hunting she-daemons you have been describing. Some are in the middle. Those are the ones I assume you want to appeal to. I know it's going to be painful, it was for me, but smart yourself up a bit if you can, maybe give the locks a bit of a trim, that sort of thing. Then you'll get all the girls complaining that they liked your hair long, and you can draw them into all sorts of farcical conversations. Sun Bless, Earth KeepZirandorthel I of TreesiaNiirus Tinenetuwar, Tivitha e'TarasLotter of the West LotGrand Duke of Lac Glacei

No hair cutting... i'll stay single in that case... *shakes head*

Okay then, just remember that ononism releases endorphines. Sun Bless, Earth KeepZirandorthel I of TreesiaNiirus Tinenetuwar, Tivitha e'TarasLotter of the West LotGrand Duke of Lac Glacei

Hey Long hair can be sexy on guys....It really can....*shrugs* just depends on that guy. Jadie of GoldshireCarry on with your lives people...nothing to see here.

*shutters giddily* ....long hair.....hehe.... I have no custom signature...oh wait...

I don't pretend to get Zir's post...

ononism is a guy that lives in northern Finland and works for Disney World. When the dolphines from Disney get old they are shipped to ononism in Findland.Once this happens they are no longer called dolphines but are known as endrophines and are released to regain their freedom.Thusononism releases endorphines.

*smacks forehead*...that is pretty good... I have no custom signature...oh wait...

*laughs* I love it! Jadie of GoldshireCarry on with your lives people...nothing to see here.

Takes a bow before the crowd of two - um, three ~goes back to Hallucination

Minister of Trade /and/ capable of speeches that make the most horribly convoluted 'birds and the bees' speeches look like latenight TV on the spice channel...Austi Scot is capable of it all.But can he do this? The world shall never know. "Disce quasi semper victurus; vive quasi cras moriturus"

Well, that answers that....

Yes, but was that really Austi or just his clone? Hmmmm? "Disce quasi semper victurus; vive quasi cras moriturus"

Greg, let me say there is hope. In the past few weeks since I broke up with Ica again, i've been pursuing a friend of mine that i've gotten rather close to...asked her to prom and stuff...and things are going surprisingly well...she knows i like her (cuz she asked me point blank) and,well, lots of her friends are suggesting to me that those feelings are being reciprocated...what i'm saying greg is don't give up...keep looking...girls do go for the sweet guys...it's just that a lot of them don't know (or don't think) such men exist...and the ones that want to keep you as friends...well...sometimes it just takes a while...take it slowly...i'm a little shy so i take it a little to slowly...but that's better than too fast....i've seen bad things happen when speed is involved...though not always *looks erik's way*don't worry, man...you;ll find her soon... Wylþeow du GrifosThe Kaiser of ShirerothThe gods blessed you with power and a visionThe gods gave you life to accomplish a mission...

Even good relationships have fights and doubts (my current one is a good example). Revolution Radio: Estimating the airspeed velocity of unladen swallows one feather at a time.Revolution Theatre: Finding your Antediluvians and providing humor for less than a week.

I'm... kind of... pursuing a girl... I think she might like me back too.... I hope. Otherwise more to come...

You should put updates on your love life into your KSHR casts. Revolution Radio: Estimating the airspeed velocity of unladen swallows one feather at a time.Revolution Theatre: Finding your Antediluvians and providing humor for less than a week.

That's not interesting news... lol more like "pathetic" news.

it's okay, greg...we're here for you... Wylþeow du GrifosThe Kaiser of ShirerothThe gods blessed you with power and a visionThe gods gave you life to accomplish a mission...

It is not pathetic Greg!!!Its called...life Jadie of GoldshireCarry on with your lives people...nothing to see here.