I'm pretty sure that you know my problem.
Namely, this. Antya is pretty much only me. I don't want it to be reduced to a county, because that partially destroys the lore I have for the Barony in the first place, and also removes me as a noble, which I do
not want, at all. Rakarsha leaving made me angry (an understatement) on two counts: 1) The danger of Antya disbanding, 2) A person wanting to move an Apollonian territory to a subdivision that was not Apollonian, 3) The betrayal of someone who I thought was loyal to me. .... three, yes, three counts. Confess or you must sit on the comfy chair, etc etc. I know I am, uh, regionalistic? But I don't care.
(However, we did apologize to each other

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As well, it's the concept of cultural rights. Normally a count has a right to do whatever he wants to do with his county, up to and including completely rewriting its history. I cannot allow that to happen for Apollonia. Period. Up to the point where I unilaterally claimed the remaining Apollonian territories continuous with Antya to prevent something like this actually happening again.
Those are my major complaints. I hate the concept of people having the right to come up with a completely new culture for the subdivision if it already has historical significance.