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Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 1:20 am
by Hypatia Agnesi
I have VERY good news for everyone who has been concerned about my mom.

She was transferred a few weeks ago to a long-term acute care hospital in San Leandro (Kindred Hospital SF). They are more specialized in dealing with conditions that require intensive hospital-level care for longer than most hospitals can handle. They do a great deal of wound care, and have experience with multi-system complications. Both of these made them a good choice.

Since she has been there, after a number of bumps in the road while they were figuring out the intricacies of her case, she has gotten much better. She has an excellent plastic surgeon who is working to remove all of the unhealthy/infected areas of her skin that have been causing her problems and pain. He has done one surgery so far, which went over far better than we'd expected, and the second (of a likely 3) will be done next week.

Mom has so far had 2 surgeries to deal with dead or infected tissue, and each one has led to her feeling better and being in a lot less pain. I fully expect the next two to do the same. We are now very optimistic about her full recovery, and are optimistic that she will regain a lot of her lost mobility. The anesthesia is always a risk with surgery, of course, but since she has always gotten through it well during this crisis, I am not seriously worried about it.

She is still restricted to bed, and can't yet really sit up, but she's doing so, so much better than she was. She's absolutely itching to get back online with all of her friends here, and to be able to talk to or check in with many people every day. She is hoping that my dad can get her a super-lightweight laptop (and mobile internet hookup), which I think might happen perhaps a month from now, once she has had the next 2 surgeries and can actually sit up in bed without pain.

My current outside estimate is that mom will be well into physical therapy (walking and such, regaining muscle tone) within 6 months, likely less. Possibly as little as 2 months. For those of you who recall, this is a far cry from her last long-term hospital stay which lasted about 10 months in 2005-06. This time she is also much healthier in general, and many of her damaged systems are healing. Her diabetes is completely under control, and her kidney function is slightly better than it was (they had shut down a while ago). She is also showing absolutely no signs of developing pneumonia, and I know she's getting lung exercise daily.

Anyway, I think that pretty much covers it. I will be with my husband's family for Thanksgiving, but I know that my Dad will be spending Thanksgiving with Mom, bringing her very tasty food. We are also planning on decorating her bed/room for Christmas, and she seems to be in very good spirits in general. I'm sure she would appreciate any Christmas cards that happened to come her way, though. :angel

Cheers!

Renee

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 1:40 am
by Erik Mortis
Walking? wow. That really is an improvement. I hope for the best.

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 1:48 am
by Andreas the Wise
Absolutely wonderful news - an answer to our prayers :angel

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 2:11 am
by Hypatia Agnesi
Well, she had been able to walk around the house well enough before she went to the hospital, with a simple walker for balance. It was just very, very difficult for her to do anything resembling distance, and using a wheelchair is much easier on outings than her sitting walker is, especially with non-family. (Watching her struggle to walk is more disconcerting to others than simply seeing her comfortable in a wheelchair. This is why she always uses it for outings and used it for my wedding.)

I am hoping that after this, she won't need more than a cane for balance.

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 4:05 am
by Malliki
Perfect news! I hope everything will go as planned.

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 4:43 am
by Jonas
Perfect news? No! This is marvelous news! The best news we can get! :)

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 4:52 am
by Malliki
If it is the best news we can get, it is per definition perfect news. :evil

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 8:43 am
by b3n|<3r|\|
Wonderful. :)

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 11:38 am
by Kaiser Loki III
A- Absolutely marvelous news! :party

B- I also find it wonderful and cheering to see a Belgian and a Swede discussing the intracacies of English. It is a small world, after all. :) :magigarp

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 12:20 pm
by Oroigawa Koreyasu
WOW! This makes me soooooooooooooooo happy! There isn't a smilie in the world I could put into this post to convey such happiness!

(also, your Niftiness, B is unfair. Mike is gonna be an english teacher) :p

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 12:34 pm
by Kaiser Loki III
"B' makes me happy. No judgement about the knowledge or skill of anybody. Gods know, I don't speak eith Dutch or Swedish, so both are way ahead of me!!

I'm thrilled when cultures mix!

And to get the news about Carol the day before Thanksgiving is wonderful!

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Fri Nov 28, 2008 6:49 pm
by Ryan
I'm very relieved to hear this news as well (albeit I've arrived a bit late). Here's hoping for continued recovery - I'm optimistic! :thumbsup

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Sat Nov 29, 2008 7:18 pm
by Harald of Froyalan
This is fantastic news!! Go go, Lady Carol!! :thumbsup :party

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2008 1:37 pm
by Jess
Is there an address to send Christmas cards and the like?

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2008 11:05 am
by Maksym Hadjimehmetov
Renee,

Great news! We'd all been concerned here but I'm sure we'll all give her a great welcome back :)
I would say Mazel Tov but it seems you won't need it- glad to hear Lady Carol is truly on the road to recovery!

Regards,

Maksym

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 5:32 am
by Hypatia Agnesi
Merry Christmas, everybody!

:) :moose :moose :moose :moose :moose :moose :moose :moose

I wanted to let everyone know that my mom is doing much better, and continues to heal at a good rate. She is still stuck in bed, but her healing process has been going beautifully, and her pain level continues to slowly go down as well. I decorated her room last week, and she has been in a great mood and much cheered up ever since.

And, I have another great piece of news. My mom has received the best Christmas present she could have gotten: an Acer Aspire laptop with a Verizon usb modem. That's right, she can now log onto Shireroth from her hospital bed. Isn't modern technology a beautiful thing? She will be demangoing before you know it.

I'll let her make the next post. But if you have something you've been hoping to say to her directly, go right ahead and PM or email her. I know she'll be thrilled to recieve your messages. :party

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 5:33 am
by Jonas
I'm thrilled! She is coming back! :cry


(the crying isn't meant negative, but positive ;) )


:party :party :thumbsup :party :party

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 6:40 am
by Malliki
Such a relief! :yay: I was really worried there for a while. It's really bad that someone as wonderful as Lady Carol has to go through something like that.

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 11:40 am
by Harald of Froyalan
Lady Carol's return is the best Christmas gift Shireroth can get!! :thumbsup :party

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 1:50 pm
by Andreas the Wise
That's wonderful! :thumbsup

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 2:07 pm
by Rai Avon-El
Can't wait till I see her here again!

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 2:18 pm
by Icebreaker
FUCKING EXCELLENT. =D

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 6:02 pm
by Maksym Hadjimehmetov
Good stuff, congratulations! :party
It shows true dedication that she's gonna post in Shireroth even after all that's gone on. :)

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 7:22 pm
by Kaiser Reynardine I
THIS IS WONDERFUL! IT WOULD MAKE THIS THE BEST CHRISTMAS EVER!

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 10:36 pm
by Prodigy Almighty
... "and as little Tiny Tim said, 'God Bless us, everyone!'" :)

Glad to hear everything is going swimmingly! :yay: :yay:

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 7:42 pm
by Jacobus Loki
(Large Pleased smile)

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 7:45 pm
by Kaiser Reynardine I
YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAY! GUESS WHO I'M TALKING TO!

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 8:09 pm
by Gman Russell
I just talked to her on the phone. :yay:

She said she's doing much better (as you allready know), and thank you for the prayers and well wishes, and to keep it up.

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Sat Dec 27, 2008 1:31 am
by hypatias mom
I'm back in circulation again, thanks be to God!

You guys have no idea just how wonderful it is to be showered as I have been with all your love and prayers. It has been very frustrating not to be in contact with all of my friends here online, and I am now trying to adjust to this tiny keyboard. Please be patient with me as I work back into circulation here. For all of you who were asking, my address here is: Kindred Hospital, 2800 Benedict Drive, Room 208, San Leandro, California 94577. I would love to receive cards and notes from you.

I will update more later. Again, thanks again for your good wishes and prayers.

Re: Update on Lady Carol

Posted: Sat Dec 27, 2008 1:39 am
by Jacobus Loki
Shireroth has a Christmas miracle!

Huzzah!